Holiday Boundaries To Fully Enjoy Your Festive Season.

Most people love the holiday season because of the rest and the opportunity to spend time with family and friends. It’s a special opportunity to gather with family and friends—even those we haven’t seen all year. The Christmas period has been made to be about connecting with family and friends, and that is great because we are spreading the same love that Jesus ( the real reason we celebrate Christmas) gave to us. In between catching up with friends and family, remember to prepare for the next year with some reflection and planning. You can find the resources for your 2026 reflection and planning here: 2025 Reflection Guide, 2026 Planning Guide.

While holidays are the most fun times, sometimes they can be the most triggering to different people and for different reasons. If you are one of those, I am sending some virtual hugs and love to you. Remember to focus on the love of God, the source of all love and the reason behind Christmas.

We have been talking about how to spend the holidays effectively in the previous weeks, with ways to rest the right way & soak in gratitude. This week’s holiday tip is on boundaries. Family gatherings are fun, but sometimes those we love the most are the ones who hurt us with what comes out of their mouths. There can be that one aunt who passes sarcastic, hurtful comments towards you. Be sure to set boundaries beforehand, boundaries on what you are willing to share about what has been going on in your life. If you already know you have such a family member in your life, prepare beforehand not to take offense and harbor hurt in your heart. And chilee, if you are one of the family members who pass those hurtful jokes, just spread love this season! I love what Victoria Osteen said, “Not every time you are spending time with your children is a learning/ correctional moment. Sometimes, just connect with them”.  This can go beyond a parent-child relationship, sometimes be around people just for connection. Get to know one another, every conversation does not have to be a correctional and life advice. There is a time for that, too. Simply enjoy each other’s company, have fun, play games, and share a laugh!

I was listening to a personal finance podcast, and they shared about handling finances during the festive season. Most people struggle after the holiday, and we love to jump on the January disease trend. After travelling, some come back to an empty house. Friend, may that not be you this festive season. Set your financial boundaries. Plan for the holidays and stick to the plan. Know the money that you are willing to and can spend during the festive season and stick to it. The festive season is known for splurging, which is not bad if you have planned for it. Be creative with your festive season, create fun moments that don’t have to break the bank if you do not have a budget for it. Make sure after the holidays you are not regretting the money that you have spent by setting aside the money that you are willing to and can spend. Don’t ruin good memories with bad financial decisions.

Happy Holidays! Be sure to enjoy your loved ones.

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